Ngakhale ndinalibe “Chidole”, pa nthawi yosungulumwa m'moyo wanga, Ndinali ndi maliseche ndi matako, kwenikweni bowo lofewa, lotambasuka lozunguliridwa ndi chosemedwa chachikazi chokhala ndi maziko athyathyathya. Onjezerani madzi, kukankha pang'ono, sambitsa, bwereza.

Ndikuganiza kuti zomverera ndizofanana ndi zida zophatikizidwa mu a Chidole cha Sex , ndiye ndikuyankha apa. Ponena za kumverera, Ndinganene kuti ndizovuta kwambiri (za kuchuluka kwa zomverera pa ine “zida”) poyerekeza ndi kugonana kwenikweni. Chifukwa chomwe zomvererazo zimakhala zochulukira ndikuti palibe kuyenda pang'ono, kuvomereza kapena malingaliro okhudzana ndi momwe wokondedwa wanu alili. Kusuntha kwanu ndi kukankhira kwanu kumakhazikika 100 % pa inu, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zomverera zikhale zokhazikika. Dziwani kuti izi sizikutanthauza kuti zinali bwino kuposa kugonana kwenikweni.

Ponena za kumverera kwathupi komweko, Ndinganene kuti ndi milingo yochepa kuposa maliseche wamba, kumverera kosiyanadi. Koma ine kubetcherana ndikumverera komweko komwe mungamve kuchokera kwa a “NYANIRI” kapena china chilichonse kayeseleledwe nyini mankhwala. Palibe njira yomwe ndingakonde kumverera koyerekeza kumeneku, m'malo mwathyathyathya, ku kumverera kwenikweni.

N'zosadabwitsa kuti kulibenso kugwirizana kwambiri maganizo komwe mumapeza chifukwa chogonana ndi munthu amene amakukondani kwambiri.. Ndi chiyaninso, palibe zomwe zimachitika kuchokera ku chidole (kukankhidwira kwa inu, kapena momwe mkazi amachitira pogonana/orgasmic) ndipo muyenera kuchita mayendedwe ONSE.

Ndikuganiza kukhala ndi miyendo ya zidole ndi zonse zomwe zingangosokoneza ntchito yayikulu. Muyenera kusuntha miyendo ndi mutu ngati mukufuna kuti ziyende mwanjira inayake, chani, M'malingaliro anga, kumawononga zongopeka za kukhala ndi bwenzi ndi inu, m’malo momanga imodzi.

Pamapeto pa tsiku, mon “chidole” inali njira yabwino yodziseweretsa maliseche, ndi kuyeretsa, kusamalira ndi kusunga chipangizocho chinali chovuta kwambiri kuposa momwe chimayenera kukhalira, chotero ndinachitaya m’zinyalala patapita miyezi ingapo.