Patadutsa mwezi umodzi kapena iwiri ndipo Charles sanawonekere. Kenako ndinapeza chifukwa chake. Sanali mlendo amene anapalana chibwezi changa, more Charles ! Ndidachoka. Sindinayang'ane mmbuyo. Kuyambira tsiku la chidole chogonana Emily anabwera m'moyo wanga, Ndifunika kukhala ndekha kuti ndichotse mabodza onse, kunyenga ndi kunyansidwa koyera komwe ndakhala ndikuzolowera. Ndiyenera kudziwa yemwe ndingamuyimbire komanso kukhala ndi nthawi pa moyo wanga, ntchito yanga ndi chisangalalo changa.

Mwayi Woyamba Ndi Weniweni, koma zili ngati chibwenzi : musalole kanthu kupita. Konzekerani nokha ndipo konzekerani. Pamene a chikondi chidole ndi anzawo atsopano a TPE afika, kuwagwira ndi kuwakweza : zidole zathu ndi zowona momwe tingathere, kutanthauzanso kuti ndi olemera ndithu. Izi zili choncho, palibenso amene amasamala za zidole za inflatable. Mwanjira ina iliyonse, onetsetsani kuyitanitsa chidolecho malinga ndi momwe thupi lanu lilili, ndipo onetsetsani kuti kutalika kwake ndi kulemera kwake kuli koyenera kwa inu. M'malo molemera, ngakhale pano, chifukwa pambuyo pa zonse, ndi chidole, osati robot, pali ubwino wake : kusewera ndi zidole zachikondi kumapereka masewera olimbitsa thupi komanso masewera olimbitsa thupi. Mukufunanso chiyani ?

Lolani mutu wa chidole chogonana cha silicone thumba loteteza mpaka atakonzeka kupuma pa thupi la chidole. Izi zidzateteza fumbi, tsitsi losafunika kapena zinyalala sizimamatira pakhungu lanu ndipo mudzapewa kuwonongeka mwangozi mukatsegula phukusi. Tsopano ikani chowonjezera pambali. Zogulitsazi zidzakuthandizani kuti chidole chanu chikhale choyera. Nthawi zambiri amaphatikiza chotsukira madzi chozungulira, chisa, zofewa zogwirira magolovesi, wigi yomwe mumasankhira chidole chanu ndi zovala zoyambirira kapena mikanjo yovala kuti mumuveke.

Yesetsani kuwongolera ndi chidole chogonana ndipo musamangoganizira za kusunga wokondedwa wanu mphindi ziwiri. Chedweraniko pang'ono, sangalalani ndi kumvera ndikuchita zidole zokonda, momwe mukuganizira kuti wokonda weniweni amafuna kukondedwa. Kusisita chidole, yang'anani iye kuchokera pamwamba mpaka pansi ndikudzilowetsa mu kukongola kwa mapindikidwe ake ndi zovuta zake. Pangani thupi lanu kumva kuthamanga kwa endorphins ndikuphunzira kuwalamulira. Ngati simukuganiza kuti mwakhala nthawi yokwanira mukusilira thupi la chidolecho, osalowetsa chidole. Umu ndi momwe mumaphunzirira kudziletsa, ndipo ulamuliro uwu udzakhala chidaliro.

Kupitilira mkangano wapakati pa omwe akuganiza zimenezo chidole cha manga ndi zabwino kwa anthu ndi omwe sakuganiza choncho, otsirizira nthawi zambiri amawalingalira mosiyana kotheratu. Kwa iwo, zimaimira mkhalidwe wamtsogolo umene maloboti adzatsanzira anthu ndi kuchita zambiri osati kungokhutiritsa eni ake pakugonana. Tangoganizirani Zidole Zakugonana pa Makanema Otchuka a pa TV, kumene maloboti aamuna ndi aakazi amatha kugwira ntchito zapakhomo ndi zochita za tsiku ndi tsiku, kuphatikizapo kusamalira ana kapena ziweto. Omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zidole zachikondi za roboti amawona kuti amatha kusintha mawonekedwe malinga ndi zosowa za eni ake.